2025 is coming up, marking the halfway point of a decade that, well, didn’t particularly get off to the best part. A lot of that is water under the bridge so we won’t dwell on it, but don’t worry, we’re certain that the rest of the decade has much more to be excited by! As the natural dividing point between the first and second parts of this decade, you may look for a kind of refresh. A refresh in your life priorities, in how you carry yourself and conduct your schedule, or even how you present yourself to the world. Perhaps you wish to change your style to feel renewed after going through something of a tough time.
But what style should you go for? Well, first you have to ask what style means to you. There are certain categories you could go for – some alternative fashion styles might work well with dyed hair or a bridge piercing, while if you’re heading into a certain age, then adjusting your style to better fit that (unless you’re Tony Hawk, wearing skating gear in your 50’s might not be as cool as it once was).Â
The question to ask is what style means to you. Then you can make better and more informed choices going forward.
Finding The Style That Suits You, Or Break Away From It
We mentioned that style can fit into certain categories above, so let’s talk about that a little more. Put simply, if you want to dress a certain way, there are certainly predetermined options you can go for. Do you like dressing as a rustic man in his 40s? Well, there are brands that may come to mind. What about the alternative of dressing with renewed verve as you’ve left a bad relationship, perhaps going for a more punky look? Heading to a store outfitted with those garments and gothic options can be inspiring and help you meet people just like you.
We tend to think as fitting in a box as a relatively bad thing, but is it? Not really. These boxes and comforts can exist for a reason and they help you learn a great deal about your craft. For instance, you wouldn’t feel bad about buying a fishing starter kit with everything you need to catch trout, so why feel bad about opting for a few simple items from a brand that caters to you? You may be surprised what you learn from it, and it’s only when you know the rules that you can decide to break from them.
Relaxing Into Your Age
Getting older doesn’t mean boring fashion, on the contrary, you can grow into yourself with dignity if you try. But that means relaxing into your age and understanding what makes you feel confident, not just what you rested in before. For instance, if you’re early-30s now, then perhaps what you wore in your early 20s is no longer as relevant as it could have been.
But remember you don’t have to dress more modestly and simply just because you’re getting older, as we all are. Some people rock edgy looks well into their 50s and 60s. Others prefer a more refined approach, perhaps opting for less garments but more expensive ones. If you loved alternative fashion in your 20s, you can still keep elements of that style. Just adapt it to suit your current life. A leather jacket might replace a full punk outfit, and help you nod towards your taste without being overly explicit about it. There’s a refinement and confidence in this that can speak very highly of your taste.
Comfort & Practicality Is Fine
Here’s a secret that no one trying to upsell you clothes is going to tell you: comfort is cool. Don’t let anyone tell you different. Your style should work for your life, not against it. If you’re constantly adjusting uncomfortable clothes, that’s not style – that’s torture, although of course some might say you have to suffer for your art. But not in this guide, and only if you want to.
A comfortable and well-fit garment can look good no matter what it is. So find pieces that make you feel good and move easily. This doesn’t mean giving up on looking great, rather it’s more about being smart about what you wear and not dreading putting an outfit together. Comfortable shoes that look awesome can be a lovely addition instead of hurting at the end of an hour of walking. Little measures like this can really help you settle into yourself, and what is fashion and style if you don’t feel like it belongs on you?
With this advice, we hope you can better define what style means for you. We hope we’ve given some heartfelt tips without dictating to you what you should do.
